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Late Usha Dhawle

“She was initially diagnosed with Endometriosis in 2017 at age 57. I remember it was literally shock to me and not was being able to catch my breath when I saw her report.
At this point, my father and our family members were very scary to be facing my mom’s diagnosis. We felt sad at the time when everything was going good in family, and we faced that shock.
While the initial cancer was not in advance we followed the path for cancer treatment: Surgery (Hysterectomy) then chemotherapy followed by finally radiation. She was in active treatment for 6-8 months. Despite hair loss, nausea, weakness, and fatigue. During this treatment my father and wife gave very intense support and love.
After 3 years, My mother had been experiencing lower back pain in the summer of 2020. She was on pain killer initially then she visited a gynecologist and a few doctors before one of them checked her cancer markers.

We were all incredibly shocked when she was diagnosed again in 2021. We did lot of investigation and consultation and one surgeon suggested one minor surgery. Now I feel that that was the major wrong decision I took for my mother by made her ready for surgery. After that surgery everything was against to her and my family, she could not perform her daily activities and the pain was very intense and she was not getting sleep because of that her mental peace was very much loss. She was continuously crying then I felt the guilt of taking that surgery decision.
Finally palliative treatment was started and that was last phase when she gone through with unbearable pain and unconsciousness conditions. I remember that earlier life was good and filled with sweet memories. My mom reveled in watching her grandkids grow. We just lived life to the fullest, from the mundane to the spectacular.